5 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Give Money To Your Boyfriend

Of recent, stories about how men used and dumped women after having drained them financially, physically, and mentally have flooded the internet.

As a result of this, more women are coming out with their stories to make the world know that giving men money while you are not married is not too good an idea.

Why You Should Know About Your Genotype Before Taking That Relationship To The Next Step

Wondering if it’s really not wrong to give your man money, we have just 5 reasons which will change your mind immediately.

1. He may become lazy

There is something called responsibility and if as a lady, you keep playing the role of the man in your relationship, you’d regret it at the end of the day. This is not saying that you cannot help out once in a while but limit it. Allow your man to be responsible and hardworking. Do not try to play his role.

2. He may take you for granted

Almost all of the stories we hear about women who went all out for their boyfriends have pathetic ends. Do not allow this to happen to you. The truth is when men meet ladies who are generous, they see her as desperate and senseless most of the time and they end up taking advantage of her.

3. He will most likely leave

Wondering how true this is, it is very true. Oh, he will keep stringing you along, promising you the heaven and the earth but in the long run, you’ll find out his intentions for you are no honourable because you gave him everything on a platter of gold.

4. He expects you to be the breadwinner after marriage

If eventually he does the honourable thing and marries you, there is bound to be friction in your home because he has become used to you picking up the financial responsibilities. Meanwhile, this will hurt you more because you felt you were merely supporting him and not taking his role as the man. He will stylishly ask you to pay bills and run the house even if he perhaps to have a little money.

5. He expects you never to stop spending.

The minute you refuse to give him your money, he will automatically think you have changed or you have been listening to bad advice from friends. Men like that feel entitled to everything you have because you made them too comfortable and when you realize your mistakes, it is too late because they just might never change.

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